What Attachment Actually Is (Not What You Think)
Attachment patterns aren’t love or identity—they’re childhood survival mechanisms running automatically in adult relationships where they no longer serve you, creating the very abandonment they’re designed to prevent. The cage isn’t the attachment itself but the fusion with identity: when “I feel anxious” becomes “I AM anxious,” trapping you inside a framework you can no longer see because you’re looking from within it.
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